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How To Get The Key To Success

We all know those up and downs where you have moments of high motivation to reach your goals and then they disappear as fast as I eat my food ( you know I love food ). Motivation isn’t the only key to success, it’s a start but the real key to reach your goal is discipline. Discipline is the key to success. Note that down. So here’s the thing with discipline: if you aren’t naturally super duper ambitious and disciplined, you need to develop it. Like Tony Robbins said, discipline is like a muscle, you can build it with constant training. HOW TO START Deciding to do something is already a start. But you also need to know how you want to achieve it. Let me just give you my example: I want to have a big booty ( no beauty op, but by hard training ). And I decided to register myself at the gym. HOW TO KEEP GOING If you made the first step and decide to do something, your motivation is always …

What We All Think About the Instagram Shadowban

The shadow ban is currently in every small and big bloggers mind and now I want to say something regarding to this case too, this is just an opinion and there are no tips on how to fix the ban, since there are enough articles about that and I couldn’t fix it myself yet: INSTAGRAM IS NO FUN TO ME ANYMORE. The shadow ban hit me suddenly and I realised it immediately because my engagement dropped from usually 170 to 190 likes to 50 until 70 likes…. WTF. I was shadow banned for a week and I tried everything I could to get out of this, I read articles on the internet on how to do that and I made it. But after posting 3 pictures I still didn’t get the engagement back I used to have so now I just stopped using Instagram for almost two weeks now. I AM VERY FRUSTRATED It is really frustrating to see your Instagram account stagnate and to know, you won’t reach more people with your creative work …

How It’s Like To Live Without A Smartphone

Within not even a year I had to change my phone 7 times because it was broken or once stolen. When my phone got stolen in Shanghai, I decided not to buy a new phone immediately and waited for two months until I was back in Germany and could buy me a new one. I thought it would be hard without a phone- especially in China! IT ISN’T HARD AT ALL But to be honest, it wasn’t hard at all. I honestly felt kind of free and happy to be without my phone. Sure, a phone is useful and I would have liked to take some photos of special places I really liked but I enjoyed the moments more than ever. The only times I was a little bit scared is, when I got lost and when I didn’t know specific words in Chinese to communicate with the locals. But other than that, I didn’t really miss my phone. TRUST IS NEEDED Every time I had an appointment with someone, I needed to trust them …

Getting Back On My Happiness Level

Wow, where did the time go? Can you believe it is already June??? Almost half a year has already passed and this month I felt a little bit stuck… Stuck in everything, university, work and my relationships. This month was a little bit weird but thankfully I had my short break in Verona and refueled my motivation and energy for the upcoming month: which is basically just studying for my exams. Honestly, I can’t wait for it to be over, even just thinking about my exams makes me cringe. YES, I read self-help books. And I love it. I read a very interesting self-help book, I know it always sounds so desperate when you say you read those kind of things, but I swear on my favorite dish of my mom, these books DO help you! They motivate you and even open your eyes, there are so many basic things in life we don’t appreciate or just don’t see, but we should appreciate them and thank them every single day. Which book are you talking …

Fighting the thoughts

This month was full of ups and downs, events, changes and extreme mood swings – just like the April weather: The highlight of this month I finally realized my dream and launched LUNAMIÈRE, a fashion jewelry online shop! I would have never expect to receive so much support when I announced it, it was totally overwhelming and I am so grateful for everyone who helped me to build this shop, sent me their congratulations and everyone who bought something. Your support and your kind words motivate me to bring my shop to the next level! Even though this was the biggest highlight in April, I still had to struggle a lot, especially with myself. I fell back into my old habit a few times and it dragged me down and made feel really really bad. But I’ve learned and am still learning a lot about myself, especially about my way of thinking. I have to fight a lot against my negative thoughts on many things in my life. It is still a hard fight but after every …

Big Announcement: LUNAMIÈRE

  My dream came true! Some of you may already know, I finally took the step and fulfilled my dream and opened my own online shop! I’ve always been dreaming of being my own boss, but I never got the guts and the right idea to realise my dream. Now I finally wanted to take the chance and founded LUNAMIÈRE. LUNAMIÈRE is composed of the Italian word la luna, which means the moon and the French word la lumière, which means the light. Deflected from my name and my blog, my vision is to give everybody the chance to find a beautiful piece of jewellery which is individual and precious. There is something for everybody As a student I know how hard we struggle sometimes with money, that’s why my price range varies largely, so everybody can find something there. From glamorous and pompous earrings for sparkling night- outs to minimalistic and classic pieces to match and complete your daily outfits, you will find there everything. Every item I offer on LUNAMIÈRE is limited, which means …

When women support each other

In the past I doubted my skills and I wasn’t sure if I was good enough for the job of my dreams, but I finally got the chance to prove my abilities! I got hired as a social media manager and I am so so so happy! I am also going to announce something big very soon! If you follow me on Social Media you might already know what I am working on, if not, follow me or stay excited! 🙂 Besides this, March was rushing through in seconds for me and university started again.I am really glad this will be over in one year, until then I need all the strength and consistency to get through this. I also started to surround myself more with positive people and I actively avoid people with negative vibes. I wanted to do this for a long time now but I didn’t really do it actively. I bonded with some amazing people and also some girls I knew for a long time now, but we never hang out …