All posts tagged: Personal

My Worst Dates Ever

Valentine’s Day is here and I have never felt the urge to have date on this day because it never had a big meaning to me- you can always have a date, why has it to be on February 14th? Anyways, dates can be a wonderful amusement or bring up very inconvenient and awkward situations. I didn’t have many dates but the few I had, were most of the times a fail… I would say… Here is my story time for you, and I hope it will make you feel glad, that you don’t have a date today! And if you have one, then I wish you a lot of fun! I. HE WENT TO THE TOILET I went out for dinner with a guy and he was reeeeallyyyyy handsome and we had fun, but when it came to pay the bill, he went to the toilet for a reeeeeallyyyyy long time, so I paid for both us. I never expect from the male part to pay my dinner, but I would have never expected …

I still can’t believe it

Hello my sparks, as you may already know, I was looking forward to 2018 since 2011 ( the year when I went 18 because 18 is my favourite number ) and it is great so far! Not only am I done soon with my studies, I have also found an apartment and I am SO excited to move in!!!!!! I still can’t believe it, Munich is so expensive and the situation here is crazy with searching for apartments! But I’m lucky that I’ve found the perfect apartment only one month after searching. Of course I had some rejections, not many, because I only visited the apartments I really wanted to have but after the first rejection I really thought that I will never find a flat because everyone told me how hard it is to find something in Munich. Finding a new home was also one of my big goals for 2018 this year and I am so happy that I can finally check it off my list! I can’t wait to decorate my home …

Why To Let It Go

Is it just me or are you also thinking of the song ‘let it go’ from the movie Frozen every time you hear ‘let it go’? But that’s not the topic today, today I want to talk with you about the people who disappointed you and made you angry. Even if you don’t talk to them and don’t see them anymore, you still get angry every time you think of them. It’s hard to forget someone who meant so much to you, but I’m telling you, that there’s a reason why these people are in your past. Don’t hold back the anger about them, it will only consume your time and energy thinking about them and imagining situations, which will never exist. If you feel like you have to speak it out loud, do it. It doesn’t have to be directly to the person you know, but writing your feelings down is enough as well. Don’t cry over people or the time you’ve spent with them, I’m sure there was a good time too – …

My Year In Words

How many times did I say how fast time flies? It was a turbulent year and I am looking forward to 2018- To be honest, I was looking forward to 2018 since I was 18, just because it is my favourite number, but let’s recap 2017 first: THE DOWNS I want to start with the less happy things this year because I want a happy ending at the end of this blogpost. The big down for me was probably going back to Germany and realising, how much my so called friends changed or didn’t change. Throughout this year I had to sort out so many people in my life and in the beginning it hurt me a lot, but now I am very happy, that I am not around them anymore, because I am actually building the life I really want. I had to learn not to look back at things or people who have hurt you- my favourite quote in this year which described my situations most of the time perfectly is: oppressed anger …

Why Good Conversations Are Rare

I recently met two of my friends for a coffee and one moment made me really angry: When both of them stared at their smartphone for 5 minutes and no one was talking to me or at all. What I absolutely hate I don’t deny that I am not someone who isn’t always on their phone, but I try to keep my smartphone in my bag when I’m meeting someone and I think it’s rude if you’re on your phone every ten minutes. What I also recognised is that this thing always happens when I’m hanging out with my Asian friends- they are on their phone like 24/7 scrolling through Instagram and Facebook, checking Whats App even if they didn’t get a message. But this should be general speaking of ( but if one of my Asian friends are reading this, you might need to think back to our last dates ). I don’t even think that replying to simple messages is really necessary when you’re on a date with someone, unless you’re expecting an …

Das Café Am Rande Der Welt

SPOILER+WARNUNG: Holt euch einen Tee oder Kaffee und Kekse! Dieser Post wird lang! Ich habe mir für dieses Jahr vorgenommen, etwas mehr zu lesen, um genauer zu sein, ein Buch im Monat zu lesen. Früher habe ich an einem Wochenende 20 Bücher gelesen und jetzt finde ich leider kaum die Zeit dazu, das ist der Nachteil am Erwachsenen- Dasein. Diese Zeit möchte ich mir aber wieder nehmen, denn für mich ist Lesen nicht nur Unterhaltung, ich tauche dadurch in eine ganz andere Welt und vergesse die Dinge um mich herum. Das Älterwerden bringt aber auch mit sich, dass man viel wählerischer wird, in meinem Fall auch bei der Bücherauswahl. Während ich früher einfach gerne Liebesgeschichten oder Krimis gelesen habe, bin ich im heutigen Alter immer auf der Suche nach Büchern, die mich weiterbringen, unterhaltsam sind sie jedoch nicht immer. Am Freitag, den 13. Oktober hatte ich einen echt miesen Tag ( ich glaube nicht an den Unglückstag! ) und fühlte mich etwas hilflos, daher habe ich beschlossen, mal wieder etwas mehr Zeit mit mir selbst …

Standing At The Crossroads

This month was quite tough for me because I had to go through some private issues and university and my new job just started. In the first few days I was excited for the new and last semester and for my new job, but I quickly realised it is too much for me. I had to work, prepare the next lessons for class, go to the gym, socialise, do my paperwork, start writing my bachelor thesis, prepare interviews for my blog, write articles for the future, prepare the winter collection for my online shop and answer all the mails regarding collaborations, cooperations and requests. If you work 3 days a week full- day and have classes 2 days a week it’s kinda hard to get all this done. Even though I thought my time management is pretty good everything totally got out of control this October and every day I wished I could just stay in my bed and keep sleeping. I didn’t feel well, sometimes I felt dizzy and sick in the morning and …